James 1:19
for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.
- woman's anger.......even with all my smiles and cheerful attitudes, this is such a tough trait to control.
I grew up pleasantly - I don't remember anger being a part of my life. In my adulthood jumping into the frays of not every body liking me and so many people controlling me, this monster began to raise it's ugly head and scream with all it's might. I tried to blame it on all I had been through and I am sure it all played a big part, but the biggest thing is I did not know how to handle all the hurt and disapointment and I took my quiet resolve and meek demeanor too far the other way and wanted my voice to be heard! Well - it was. And everyday I struggled with how to get my points across with stronger people who didn't care about my points.
Today - and everyday I have to work on controlling my anger. I still have a right to be angry for the proper reasons. Now my anger is directed at the way people treat others instead of how they treat me. Which is an improvement but I still have to remind myself that others don't have to agree or even listen. And my points are still valid even if no one listens or reads them. Also my voice is heard much better in whispers than shouting.
There is a book by Kay Arthur - "How Can I Be Blessed?" which describes meekness so well. And it shows the case for righteous anger where Jesus even showed His anger at the moneychangers in His Father's House. I need to refresh my memory of this book often.
There is the Best Book - God's Holy Word - The Bible. Oh that I could follow these instructions better.
So here's to those I have ever hurt in my angry voice - Please forgive me for I was wrong.
And to those who have hurt me in their angry voices - I forgive you.
And to My Precious Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ - Thank You for forgiving me!
Updated: Wednesday, 6 August 2008 12:39 PM EDT
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